7 Ways to Build Trust with Your Child Who Tests Boundaries

7 Ways to Build Trust with Your Child Who Tests Boundaries

Being a new foster parent can feel overwhelming, especially when a child tests boundaries repeatedly.  It can feel personal, frustrating, or even discouraging.  But for many foster children, pushing limits is not about defiance.  It’s a way to check whether adults are safe, consistent, and trustworthy. Understanding why boundary-testing happens

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Praise That Builds Self-Concept (Not Pressure): 15 Phrases Parents & Teachers Can Use Today

Praise That Builds Self-Concept (Not Pressure) 15 Phrases Parents & Teachers Can Use Today Most kids don’t need more praise. They need better praise. Because there’s a big difference between: praise that says “You’re valuable when you perform,” and praise that says “You’re valuable because you exist.” One builds a

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Why Do Foster Children Push Boundaries?

Why Do Foster Children Push Boundaries?

Becoming a foster parent is a journey filled with joy, challenges, and learning.  One of the most common experiences new foster parents face is children testing limits or pushing boundaries.  While this behavior can feel frustrating, it is often a natural response to trauma and uncertainty.  Understanding why foster children

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